Just thought of an analogy not too long ago...
People always talk about love as it is some kind of fire...and the title of this post has been used freqeuntly to...describe(?) a relationship...
Yes love is like a fire..
You need the fuel..the oxygen...and the heat..
To start a fire..you need fuel..ie...pple need to be ready for a relationship. Got sparks but you are not ready...aka...you have wet wood...fire wun start.. If got dry wood but no sparks...also no fire... and here i liken sparks as the heat...
So you got a fire going...you need to keep feeding the fire...
there are 2 kinds of fuel...those that are easy to burn..and burn fast..ie small twigs..and those that are difficult to burn but when they do, they burn for a long time... ie thick logs.
Twigs are like surprises...when you start your relationship..you have to have many surprises aka tricks up your sleeve to win the other party over.. and later when the fire is burning hot enough...you can throw in a log or two(long term promises and small daily sweetness like helping her do stuff)...and the fire should be ok...but if you stop doing anithing...the wood gonna burn finish..then the fire will DIE!
So you have to feed the fire...but if you keep feeding logs...also cannot! sometimes new log haven burn...old log die liao!!! if you got burn things before you would know.... then how....so need to put in twigs also! so that got enough heat to help the new log burn...so you must always go for surprises and stuff also!
But you cannot always just burn twigs! you will tire yourself to death! so must use log also! But log alone cannot last too! So a good mix is recommended!
Yah...so need to keep the fire burning..must remember...dun let the fire die out!!!
and I love my dear so much! Muacks...(ok i know..off topic...but can't resist to say it...muahahaha)
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